"Kyla’s healing work is literally out of this world. And while it has had a profound impact on me and my own personal journey, what I deeply appreciate about family constellation work is that it taps me into the bigger picture, to the ancient conversation, into the field where we can shift things without the burden of words. We can step Into another’s shoes and imagine what that feels like- and to remind ourselves that we have the ability to do that. It’s a lot harder to “other” someone when you have felt into their reality."
-Jessica Foster, Neuro Performance Coach
-Jessica Foster, Neuro Performance Coach
One of my friends, Margot, hosted a Family Constellations event at her home. (You can too!) She wanted to understand more about it to explain to her friends, so I created this video for her friends. Then I realized this video could be for anyone/everyone interested in Family Constellations. Enjoyyyyy!
What the heck is Family Constellations?
Bert Hellinger founded the modality in the 1990s. He was a German psycho-analyst working WITH German patients. Because they were German, they were either the descendants of the Nazis or Holocaust survivors. So either way, lots of ancestor trauma (!). He lived in South Africa as a missionary. While in South Africa, he happened upon the Zulu tribes. From working WITH the Zulu tribes, he discovered that they had a way to connect WITH their ancestors through ancestor rites and rituals (unlike us in the west). He combined what he learned from the Zulu tribes WITH the likes of Karl Jung’s archetypal work, and other modalities, and came up with Family Constellations.
Like no other modality, the client (whom we call “the seeker”) chooses other people to represent people in their lives, or illnesses, or emotions, or feelings, (and more!) and observes as the constellation unfolds for the seeker’s highest and best most soul-healing catharsis. And magical miracle-y results.
Like no other modality, the client (whom we call “the seeker”) chooses other people to represent people in their lives, or illnesses, or emotions, or feelings, (and more!) and observes as the constellation unfolds for the seeker’s highest and best most soul-healing catharsis. And magical miracle-y results.
Who is Family Constellations for?
Anyone who is:
- Looking to break family patterns
- Feeling stuck in their work, life, business
- Ready for transformation on a deep level
- Open to mind-blowing work and incredible results
- Tired of feeling icky
3 Things I can guarantee when you come to a session or more!
(1) The logic part of your brain will try to rationalize the shit out of what just happened. And exquisitely paradoxically, you will have the biggest catharsis ever. And the biggest bonus result? The intuitive part of your brain: Activated.
(2) You will feel a deep resonance WITH someone else’s story. Not just like a “Yeah, I get it.” No, more like, “Wait a second, is this me they’re talking about right now?” And because of that deep resonance, you will walk away feeling deep catharsis without even having uttered a word about your own story.
(3) You will have language for the first time to feel seen, heard, loved, nurtured at a soul level like you’ve never ever had before. This language-ing will help you process deep shit, you didn’t even know you may have needed to process. So you can move forward in your life, work, business feeling unstuck. And receive magical miracle-y results.
(2) You will feel a deep resonance WITH someone else’s story. Not just like a “Yeah, I get it.” No, more like, “Wait a second, is this me they’re talking about right now?” And because of that deep resonance, you will walk away feeling deep catharsis without even having uttered a word about your own story.
(3) You will have language for the first time to feel seen, heard, loved, nurtured at a soul level like you’ve never ever had before. This language-ing will help you process deep shit, you didn’t even know you may have needed to process. So you can move forward in your life, work, business feeling unstuck. And receive magical miracle-y results.
FAQ
Does it only have to be about family issues?
No, you can bring any issues you may be facing.
How long will one session last?
Usually 45 minutes to an hour for one client (seeker).
Do I have to bring my family members?
No, it's actually better if you don't. lol.
How does a 3-hour workshop normally go?
So, usually, I start with an introduction. I introduce Family Constellations. I have everyone introduce themselves. We then have time for about 3-4 constellations.
I cannot make one of your workshops. How can I find out about your upcoming ones?
Feel free to email us or sign up for our newsletter (at the bottom of this page).
I am curious to see Family Constellations in action. Is there a resource you recommend?
Check out Sex, Love, and Goop Episode 5 on Netflix. Click here for the trailer.
Or Another Self, a Turkish drama also on Netflix. Click here for the trailer.
How is this different from therapy?
Family Constellations is concerned with the past, present, and future of the seeker using different humans to represent important figures in the seeker's life. The seeker is actually a third-party observer in their constellation--they are actually not a part of it.
Do I have to be spiritual?
No, but you have to be open to new ways of looking at your issues.
Can you bring it to my company or organization?
Sure, feel free to email us.
I'd like to host one in my own home and have friends who might be interested. What should I do?
Feel free to schedule a virtual matcha latte date here.
Can you do this 1:1?
Yes! Feel free to set up a virtual matcha latte date here if interested in 1:1 work.
No, you can bring any issues you may be facing.
How long will one session last?
Usually 45 minutes to an hour for one client (seeker).
Do I have to bring my family members?
No, it's actually better if you don't. lol.
How does a 3-hour workshop normally go?
So, usually, I start with an introduction. I introduce Family Constellations. I have everyone introduce themselves. We then have time for about 3-4 constellations.
I cannot make one of your workshops. How can I find out about your upcoming ones?
Feel free to email us or sign up for our newsletter (at the bottom of this page).
I am curious to see Family Constellations in action. Is there a resource you recommend?
Check out Sex, Love, and Goop Episode 5 on Netflix. Click here for the trailer.
Or Another Self, a Turkish drama also on Netflix. Click here for the trailer.
How is this different from therapy?
Family Constellations is concerned with the past, present, and future of the seeker using different humans to represent important figures in the seeker's life. The seeker is actually a third-party observer in their constellation--they are actually not a part of it.
Do I have to be spiritual?
No, but you have to be open to new ways of looking at your issues.
Can you bring it to my company or organization?
Sure, feel free to email us.
I'd like to host one in my own home and have friends who might be interested. What should I do?
Feel free to schedule a virtual matcha latte date here.
Can you do this 1:1?
Yes! Feel free to set up a virtual matcha latte date here if interested in 1:1 work.
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Upcoming
Mini + Full Gatherings
1-hour FREE Family Constellations Intro
January 20, 2024
12:30-1:30PM
Forma Gym, Walnut Creek
Call Forma to register: 925.932.6400
Non-Members Welcome!
January 20, 2024
12:30-1:30PM
Forma Gym, Walnut Creek
Call Forma to register: 925.932.6400
Non-Members Welcome!
3-hour Family Constellations
February 10, 2024
2:00-5:00PM
Private Photo Studio, San Francisco
Tickets: $88
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February 10, 2024
2:00-5:00PM
Private Photo Studio, San Francisco
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3-hour Family Constellations
March 3, 2024
3:00-6:00PM
Private Residence, Oakley
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March 3, 2024
3:00-6:00PM
Private Residence, Oakley
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ONLINE
Weekly Online Business Constellations for Soul-Driven Entrepreneurs
April 1, 2024
12:00PM-1:15PM
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April 1, 2024
12:00PM-1:15PM
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Weekly Online Business Constellations for Soul-Driven Entrepreneurs
April 8, 2024
12:00PM-1:15PM
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April 8, 2024
12:00PM-1:15PM
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Weekly Online Business Constellations for Soul-Driven Entrepreneurs -- CANCELED due to Kyla in Malta
April 15, 2024
12:00PM-1:15PM
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April 15, 2024
12:00PM-1:15PM
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Weekly Online Business Constellations for Soul-Driven Entrepreneurs
April 22, 2024
12:00PM-1:15PM
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April 22, 2024
12:00PM-1:15PM
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Weekly Online Business Constellations for Soul-Driven Entrepreneurs
April 29, 2024
12:00PM-1:15PM
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April 29, 2024
12:00PM-1:15PM
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Online Family Constellations for Asian-Identifying Humans
May 30, 2024
12:00PM-2:00PM
Tickets: $68
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May 30, 2024
12:00PM-2:00PM
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IN-PERSON
Women's Wellness One-Day Retreat
April 9, 2024
9:00AM-5:00PM
Yoga, Somatic Movement, Nutrition Activation, and 3 hours of Family Constellations Therapy
Private Residence, Oakley
Tickets: $197
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April 9, 2024
9:00AM-5:00PM
Yoga, Somatic Movement, Nutrition Activation, and 3 hours of Family Constellations Therapy
Private Residence, Oakley
Tickets: $197
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Family Constellations Intro
April 12, 2024
12:00-1:00PM
Forma Gym, Walnut Creek
Tickets: FREE
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April 12, 2024
12:00-1:00PM
Forma Gym, Walnut Creek
Tickets: FREE
To register call Forma: 925.932.6400
Family Constellations for 45+ Women
April 21, 2024
2:00-5:30PM
Holistika, Lafayette
Tickets: $98
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April 21, 2024
2:00-5:30PM
Holistika, Lafayette
Tickets: $98
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Business Constellations for Soul-Driven Entrepreneurs
April 26, 2024
11:00AM-1:00PM
Holistika, Lafayette
Tickets: $68
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April 26, 2024
11:00AM-1:00PM
Holistika, Lafayette
Tickets: $68
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Family Constellations for Asian-Identifying Humans
April 27, 2024
2:00-5:00PM
Holistika, Lafayette
Tickets: $98
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April 27, 2024
2:00-5:00PM
Holistika, Lafayette
Tickets: $98
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Family Constellations Intro
May 10, 2024
12:00-1:00PM
Forma Gym, Walnut Creek
Tickets: FREE
To register call Forma: 925.932.6400
May 10, 2024
12:00-1:00PM
Forma Gym, Walnut Creek
Tickets: FREE
To register call Forma: 925.932.6400
Family Constellations
May 11, 2024
12:30-3:30PM
Forma Gym, Walnut Creek
Tickets: $97 for members and $117 for non-members
To register email Yuki: [email protected]
May 11, 2024
12:30-3:30PM
Forma Gym, Walnut Creek
Tickets: $97 for members and $117 for non-members
To register email Yuki: [email protected]
Women's Wellness One-Day Retreat
May 14, 2024
9:00AM-5:00PM
Yoga, Somatic Movement, Nutrition Activation, and 3 hours of Family Constellations Therapy
Private Residence, Oakley
Tickets: $197
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May 14, 2024
9:00AM-5:00PM
Yoga, Somatic Movement, Nutrition Activation, and 3 hours of Family Constellations Therapy
Private Residence, Oakley
Tickets: $197
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Family Constellations for Asian-identifying Humans
May 18, 2024
2:00PM-5:00PM
Holistika, Lafayette
Tickets: $98
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May 18, 2024
2:00PM-5:00PM
Holistika, Lafayette
Tickets: $98
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Family Constellations for 45+ Women
May 19, 2024
2:00-5:30PM
Private Residence, Oakland
Tickets: $98
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May 19, 2024
2:00-5:30PM
Private Residence, Oakland
Tickets: $98
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Healing + Horses Family Constellations Half-Day
May 25, 2024
1:00PM-5:00PM
Private Ranch, Auburn
Tickets: $108
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May 25, 2024
1:00PM-5:00PM
Private Ranch, Auburn
Tickets: $108
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The Coach's Retreat
3-day in-person business constellation intensive
3-month virtual business constellations mastermind
June 11-June 13
Our Coach's Retreat House
Gilbert, AZ
Tickets: $1K/month for 3 months or $3K
Full Accommodation, All Meals, Snacks, + Tea included
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3-day in-person business constellation intensive
3-month virtual business constellations mastermind
June 11-June 13
Our Coach's Retreat House
Gilbert, AZ
Tickets: $1K/month for 3 months or $3K
Full Accommodation, All Meals, Snacks, + Tea included
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Women's Wellness One-Day Retreat for Soul-Driven Women Entrepreneurs/Humans
July 9, 2024 -POSTPONED to August 13, 2024 (scroll down to register)
9:00AM-3:00PM
Yoga, Somatic Movement, Nutrition Activation, and 3 hours of Family Constellations Therapy
Private Residence, Oakley
Tickets: $197 (includes soul-nourishing lunch, snacks, and gift bag)
July 9, 2024 -POSTPONED to August 13, 2024 (scroll down to register)
9:00AM-3:00PM
Yoga, Somatic Movement, Nutrition Activation, and 3 hours of Family Constellations Therapy
Private Residence, Oakley
Tickets: $197 (includes soul-nourishing lunch, snacks, and gift bag)
All-Asian Family Constellations
July 12, 2024
11:00AM-1:00PM
Holistika, Lafayette
Tickets: $68
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July 12, 2024
11:00AM-1:00PM
Holistika, Lafayette
Tickets: $68
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Family Constellations for All Humans
July 21, 2024
2:00-5:00PM
San Jose
Tickets: $98
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July 21, 2024
2:00-5:00PM
San Jose
Tickets: $98
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Family Constellations Open to All
July 26, 2024
11:00AM-1:00PM
Holistika, Lafayette
Tickets: $68
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July 26, 2024
11:00AM-1:00PM
Holistika, Lafayette
Tickets: $68
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Family Constellations Open to All - CANCELED
July 28, 2024
2:00-5:00PM
North Bay
Tickets: $98
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July 28, 2024
2:00-5:00PM
North Bay
Tickets: $98
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All-Asian Family Constellations
August 9, 2024
11:00AM-2:00PM
Holistika, Lafayette
Tickets: $98
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August 9, 2024
11:00AM-2:00PM
Holistika, Lafayette
Tickets: $98
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Women's Wellness One-Day Retreat for Soul-Driven Women Entrepreneurs/Humans
August 13, 2024
9:00AM-3:00PM
Yoga, Somatic Movement, Nutrition Activation, and 3 hours of Family Constellations Therapy
Private Residence, Oakley
Tickets: $197 (includes soul-nourishing lunch, snacks, and gift bag)
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August 13, 2024
9:00AM-3:00PM
Yoga, Somatic Movement, Nutrition Activation, and 3 hours of Family Constellations Therapy
Private Residence, Oakley
Tickets: $197 (includes soul-nourishing lunch, snacks, and gift bag)
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Family Constellations for Men
August 23, 2024
11:00AM-2:00PM
Holistika, Lafayette
Tickets: $98
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August 23, 2024
11:00AM-2:00PM
Holistika, Lafayette
Tickets: $98
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Family Constellations for All
September 20, 2024
11:00AM-2:00PM
Holistika, Lafayette
Tickets: $98
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September 20, 2024
11:00AM-2:00PM
Holistika, Lafayette
Tickets: $98
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Family Constellations for All
September 20, 2024 (Weekly)
2:30-3:45PM
Forma Gym, Walnut Creek
Tickets: Free (If you're a Forma member or get a Free Day Pass)
To register: Go to Forma front desk
September 20, 2024 (Weekly)
2:30-3:45PM
Forma Gym, Walnut Creek
Tickets: Free (If you're a Forma member or get a Free Day Pass)
To register: Go to Forma front desk
Family Constellations for All-Asian
October 4, 2024
11:00AM-1:00PM
Holistika, Lafayette
Tickets: $68
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October 4, 2024
11:00AM-1:00PM
Holistika, Lafayette
Tickets: $68
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Family Constellations Open to All
October 11, 2024
11:00AM-1:00PM
Holistika, Lafayette
Tickets: $68
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October 11, 2024
11:00AM-1:00PM
Holistika, Lafayette
Tickets: $68
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Business Constellations Intensive Retreat
3-day in-person Family Constellations Intensive
October 15-October 17
Oakland, CA
Tickets: $3K for single on-site- SOLD OUT; $2K for off-site
Full Accommodation (for on-site tickets), All Meals + Snacks curated by Kyla, + FabulaTea included
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3-day in-person Family Constellations Intensive
October 15-October 17
Oakland, CA
Tickets: $3K for single on-site- SOLD OUT; $2K for off-site
Full Accommodation (for on-site tickets), All Meals + Snacks curated by Kyla, + FabulaTea included
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Family Constellations for All-Asian
October 18, 2024
11:00AM-1:00PM
Holistika, Lafayette
Tickets: $68
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October 18, 2024
11:00AM-1:00PM
Holistika, Lafayette
Tickets: $68
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Family Constellations Open to All
October 25, 2024
11:00AM-1:00PM
Holistika, Lafayette
Tickets: $68
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October 25, 2024
11:00AM-1:00PM
Holistika, Lafayette
Tickets: $68
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Women's Wellness One-Day Retreat for Soul-Driven Women Entrepreneurs/Humans
October 26, 2024
9:00AM-4:00PM
Yoga, Somatic Movement, Nutrition Activation, and 3 hours of Family Constellations Therapy
Private Residence, Byron
Tickets: $197 (includes soul-nourishing lunch, snacks, and gift bag)
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October 26, 2024
9:00AM-4:00PM
Yoga, Somatic Movement, Nutrition Activation, and 3 hours of Family Constellations Therapy
Private Residence, Byron
Tickets: $197 (includes soul-nourishing lunch, snacks, and gift bag)
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Asian Women Collective
Family Constellations Intensive Retreat for Asian Women
4-day in-person Family Constellations Intensive
November 2-5, 2024
Danville, CA
Tickets: $3K for single on-site; $2K for off-site
Full Accommodation, All Meals + Snacks (Curated by Kyla),+ Tea (Curated by Fabula Tea) included
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Family Constellations Intensive Retreat for Asian Women
4-day in-person Family Constellations Intensive
November 2-5, 2024
Danville, CA
Tickets: $3K for single on-site; $2K for off-site
Full Accommodation, All Meals + Snacks (Curated by Kyla),+ Tea (Curated by Fabula Tea) included
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Host-Your-Own 3-hour Family Constellations
You choose the 3-hour time slot and day.
You invite 3-4 of your besties to your living room.
You provide tea and water to drink.
You receive a free ticket.
Your friends' tickets are $98 per person.
To schedule click here.
You choose the 3-hour time slot and day.
You invite 3-4 of your besties to your living room.
You provide tea and water to drink.
You receive a free ticket.
Your friends' tickets are $98 per person.
To schedule click here.