What the heck is Family Constellations?
Bert Hellinger founded the modality in the 1990s. He was a German psycho-analyst working WITH German patients. Because they were German, they were either the descendants of the Nazis or Holocaust survivors. So either way, lots of ancestor trauma (!). He lived in South Africa as a missionary. While in South Africa, he happened upon the Zulu tribes. From working WITH the Zulu tribes, he discovered that they had a way to connect WITH their ancestors through ancestor rites and rituals (unlike us in the west). He combined what he learned from the Zulu tribes WITH the likes of Karl Jung’s archetypal work, and other modalities, and came up with Family Constellations.
Like no other modality, the client (whom we call “the seeker”) chooses other people to represent people in their lives, or illnesses, or emotions, or feelings, (and more!) and observes as the constellation unfolds for the seeker’s highest and best most soul-healing catharsis. And magical miracle-y results.
Like no other modality, the client (whom we call “the seeker”) chooses other people to represent people in their lives, or illnesses, or emotions, or feelings, (and more!) and observes as the constellation unfolds for the seeker’s highest and best most soul-healing catharsis. And magical miracle-y results.
Who is Family Constellations for?
Anyone who is:
- Looking to break family patterns
- Feeling stuck in their work, life, business
- Ready for transformation on a deep level
- Open to mind-blowing work and incredible results
- Tired of feeling icky
3 Things I can guarantee when you come to a session or more!
(1) The logic part of your brain will try to rationalize the shit out of what just happened. And exquisitely paradoxically, you will have the biggest catharsis ever. And the biggest bonus result? The intuitive part of your brain: Activated.
(2) You will feel a deep resonance WITH someone else’s story. Not just like a “Yeah, I get it.” No, more like, “Wait a second, is this me they’re talking about right now?” And because of that deep resonance, you will walk away feeling deep catharsis without even having uttered a word about your own story.
(3) You will have language for the first time to feel seen, heard, loved, nurtured at a soul level like you’ve never ever had before. This language-ing will help you process deep shit, you didn’t even know you may have needed to process. So you can move forward in your life, work, business feeling unstuck.
(2) You will feel a deep resonance WITH someone else’s story. Not just like a “Yeah, I get it.” No, more like, “Wait a second, is this me they’re talking about right now?” And because of that deep resonance, you will walk away feeling deep catharsis without even having uttered a word about your own story.
(3) You will have language for the first time to feel seen, heard, loved, nurtured at a soul level like you’ve never ever had before. This language-ing will help you process deep shit, you didn’t even know you may have needed to process. So you can move forward in your life, work, business feeling unstuck.
FAQ
Does it only have to be about family issues?
No, you can bring any issues you may be facing.
How long will one session last?
Usually 45 minutes to an hour for one client (seeker).
Do I have to bring my family members?
No, it's actually better if you don't. lol.
How does a 3 to 4-hour workshop normally go?
So, usually, I start with an introduction. I introduce Family Constellations. I have everyone introduce themselves. We then have time for about 3-4 constellations.
I cannot make one of your workshops. How can I find out about your upcoming ones?
Feel free to email us or sign up for our newsletter (at the bottom of this page).
I am curious to see Family Constellations in action. Is there a resource you recommend?
Check out Sex, Love, and Goop Episode 5 on Netflix.
How is this different from therapy?
Family Constellations is concerned with the past, present, and future of the seeker using different humans to represent important figures in the seeker's life. The seeker is actually a third-party observer in their constellation--they are actually not a part of it.
Do I have to be spiritual?
No, but you have to be open to new ways of looking at your issues.
Can you bring it to my company or organization?
Sure, feel free to email us.
Can you do this 1:1?
Yes! Feel free to set up a virtual matcha latte date here if interested in 1:1 work.
No, you can bring any issues you may be facing.
How long will one session last?
Usually 45 minutes to an hour for one client (seeker).
Do I have to bring my family members?
No, it's actually better if you don't. lol.
How does a 3 to 4-hour workshop normally go?
So, usually, I start with an introduction. I introduce Family Constellations. I have everyone introduce themselves. We then have time for about 3-4 constellations.
I cannot make one of your workshops. How can I find out about your upcoming ones?
Feel free to email us or sign up for our newsletter (at the bottom of this page).
I am curious to see Family Constellations in action. Is there a resource you recommend?
Check out Sex, Love, and Goop Episode 5 on Netflix.
How is this different from therapy?
Family Constellations is concerned with the past, present, and future of the seeker using different humans to represent important figures in the seeker's life. The seeker is actually a third-party observer in their constellation--they are actually not a part of it.
Do I have to be spiritual?
No, but you have to be open to new ways of looking at your issues.
Can you bring it to my company or organization?
Sure, feel free to email us.
Can you do this 1:1?
Yes! Feel free to set up a virtual matcha latte date here if interested in 1:1 work.
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Mini + Full Retreats
Family Constellations 1/3 Day
October 8th
What if the fear you were carrying wasn’t yours?
-Using this incredible modality, we will get to the root of your fear
-Give it back to one of your ancestors whom it belongs to
-So that you can move forward in your own life feeling light, flow-y, and magical again (love-based living as opposed to fear-based living)
10AM-1PM
Goddess Gatherings, Lafayette
10 spots
Tickets: $88
Register here
Family Constellations 1/3 Day
November 5th
Gratitude keeps you grounded in the present. Often when we are worried about the past or the what will happen in the future, it’s hard to be gratitude-ing in the present.
-Using this incredible modality, we will help you move from past clearing anything no longer serving you
-Bring you to the present where you can welcome gratitude in
-Help you acknowledge the future from a beautiful place of clean energy
10AM-1PM
Goddess Gatherings, Lafayette
10 spots
Tickets: $88
Register here
Family Constellations 1/3 Day
December 10th
Celebrating the holidays WITH family, without carrying their shit.
-Using this incredible modality, we will get to the root of stress, or anxiety that may keep you from enjoying family holiday dinners and events
-Give it back to one of your ancestors whom it belongs to
-So that you can move forward this holiday season feeling light, magical, and truly joy-full.
10AM-1PM
Goddess Gatherings, Lafayette
10 spots
Tickets: $88
Register here
October 20-22
3-day In-person + 6-month high-level mastermind [For women entrepreneurs]
Private Residence in San Martin, CA
All meals provided
3 spots left
Tickets: $4.5K [payment plans available]
Register here
October 8th
What if the fear you were carrying wasn’t yours?
-Using this incredible modality, we will get to the root of your fear
-Give it back to one of your ancestors whom it belongs to
-So that you can move forward in your own life feeling light, flow-y, and magical again (love-based living as opposed to fear-based living)
10AM-1PM
Goddess Gatherings, Lafayette
10 spots
Tickets: $88
Register here
Family Constellations 1/3 Day
November 5th
Gratitude keeps you grounded in the present. Often when we are worried about the past or the what will happen in the future, it’s hard to be gratitude-ing in the present.
-Using this incredible modality, we will help you move from past clearing anything no longer serving you
-Bring you to the present where you can welcome gratitude in
-Help you acknowledge the future from a beautiful place of clean energy
10AM-1PM
Goddess Gatherings, Lafayette
10 spots
Tickets: $88
Register here
Family Constellations 1/3 Day
December 10th
Celebrating the holidays WITH family, without carrying their shit.
-Using this incredible modality, we will get to the root of stress, or anxiety that may keep you from enjoying family holiday dinners and events
-Give it back to one of your ancestors whom it belongs to
-So that you can move forward this holiday season feeling light, magical, and truly joy-full.
10AM-1PM
Goddess Gatherings, Lafayette
10 spots
Tickets: $88
Register here
October 20-22
3-day In-person + 6-month high-level mastermind [For women entrepreneurs]
Private Residence in San Martin, CA
All meals provided
3 spots left
Tickets: $4.5K [payment plans available]
Register here
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