What the heck is Family Constellations?
Bert Hellinger founded the modality in the 1990s. He was a German psycho-analyst working WITH German patients. Because they were German, they were either the descendants of the Nazis or Holocaust survivors. So either way, lots of ancestor trauma (!). He lived in South Africa as a missionary. While in South Africa, he happened upon the Zulu tribes. From working WITH the Zulu tribes, he discovered that they had a way to connect WITH their ancestors through ancestor rites and rituals (unlike us in the west). He combined what he learned from the Zulu tribes WITH the likes of Karl Jung’s archetypal work, and other modalities, and came up with Family Constellations.
Like no other modality, the client (whom we call “the seeker”) chooses other people to represent people in their lives, or illnesses, or emotions, or feelings, (and more!) and observes as the constellation unfolds for the seeker’s highest and best most soul-healing catharsis. And magical miracle-y results.
Like no other modality, the client (whom we call “the seeker”) chooses other people to represent people in their lives, or illnesses, or emotions, or feelings, (and more!) and observes as the constellation unfolds for the seeker’s highest and best most soul-healing catharsis. And magical miracle-y results.
Who is Family Constellations for?
Anyone who is:
- Looking to break family patterns
- Feeling stuck in their work, life, business
- Ready for transformation on a deep level
- Open to mind-blowing work and incredible results
- Tired of feeling icky
3 Things I can guarantee when you come to a session or more!
(1) The logic part of your brain will try to rationalize the shit out of what just happened. And exquisitely paradoxically, you will have the biggest catharsis ever. And the biggest bonus result? The intuitive part of your brain: Activated.
(2) You will feel a deep resonance WITH someone else’s story. Not just like a “Yeah, I get it.” No, more like, “Wait a second, is this me they’re talking about right now?” And because of that deep resonance, you will walk away feeling deep catharsis without even having uttered a word about your own story.
(3) You will have language for the first time to feel seen, heard, loved, nurtured at a soul level like you’ve never ever had before. This language-ing will help you process deep shit, you didn’t even know you may have needed to process. So you can move forward in your life, work, business feeling unstuck.
(2) You will feel a deep resonance WITH someone else’s story. Not just like a “Yeah, I get it.” No, more like, “Wait a second, is this me they’re talking about right now?” And because of that deep resonance, you will walk away feeling deep catharsis without even having uttered a word about your own story.
(3) You will have language for the first time to feel seen, heard, loved, nurtured at a soul level like you’ve never ever had before. This language-ing will help you process deep shit, you didn’t even know you may have needed to process. So you can move forward in your life, work, business feeling unstuck.
FAQ
Does it only have to be about family issues?
No, you can bring any issues you may be facing.
How long will one session last?
Usually 45 minutes to an hour for one client (seeker).
Do I have to bring my family members?
No, it's actually better if you don't. lol.
How does a 3-hour workshop normally go?
So, usually, I start with an introduction. I introduce Family Constellations. I have everyone introduce themselves. We then have time for about 3 constellations.
I cannot make one of your workshops. How can I find out about your upcoming ones?
Feel free to email us or sign up for our newsletter (at the bottom of this page).
I am curious to see Family Constellations in action. Is there a resource you recommend?
Check out Sex, Love, and Goop Episode 5 on Netflix.
How is this different from therapy?
Family Constellations is concerned with the past, present, and future of the seeker using different humans to represent important figures in the seeker's life. The seeker is actually a third-party observer in their constellation--they are actually not a part of it.
Do I have to be spiritual?
No, but you have to be open to new ways of looking at your issues.
Can you bring it to my company or organization?
Sure, feel free to email us.
Can you do this 1:1?
Yes! Feel free to set up a virtual matcha latte date here if interested in 1:1 work.
No, you can bring any issues you may be facing.
How long will one session last?
Usually 45 minutes to an hour for one client (seeker).
Do I have to bring my family members?
No, it's actually better if you don't. lol.
How does a 3-hour workshop normally go?
So, usually, I start with an introduction. I introduce Family Constellations. I have everyone introduce themselves. We then have time for about 3 constellations.
I cannot make one of your workshops. How can I find out about your upcoming ones?
Feel free to email us or sign up for our newsletter (at the bottom of this page).
I am curious to see Family Constellations in action. Is there a resource you recommend?
Check out Sex, Love, and Goop Episode 5 on Netflix.
How is this different from therapy?
Family Constellations is concerned with the past, present, and future of the seeker using different humans to represent important figures in the seeker's life. The seeker is actually a third-party observer in their constellation--they are actually not a part of it.
Do I have to be spiritual?
No, but you have to be open to new ways of looking at your issues.
Can you bring it to my company or organization?
Sure, feel free to email us.
Can you do this 1:1?
Yes! Feel free to set up a virtual matcha latte date here if interested in 1:1 work.
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Summer Events
JUNE 16-18
What: The Coach's Retreat
When: June 16 1PM - June 18 1PM
Description: Our signature quarterly retreat for women entrepreneurs who feel stuck in their business (and you know business is never about business, it's like 20 layers deep). We use Family Constellations to constellate the shit out of your biz. You'll walk away WITH a sacred business plan, access to our 9-week online course called "On Growing", and a 3-month virtual weekly zoom container to rock out your next big thing in your biz based on your sacred business plan.
Ticket: $5K (on-site) and $3K (off-site)
Location: Gilbert, Arizona
Number of awesome humans: 5 (on-site); 3 remaining and 4 (off-site); 4 remaining
For more deets and to apply click here.
JUNE 24
What: Self-Love focused Family Constellations
When: June 24th | 9AM-5PM
Description: For constellators seeking to do a deep dive into challenges around self-esteem, self-love, self-confidence, self-trust, self-respect, and any other self- _____ <-- fill in the blank words! Our hope is every one will get the opportunity to be a seeker here with a one-hour lunch break provided by Casey! You can find out more about Casey and her work here.
Where: Shot by Casey Photo Studio in Concord, CA
Ticket: $333 (lunch provided)
Number of awesome humans: 8
To save your spot click here.
JULY 15
What: Family Constellations
When: July 15 | 10AM-1PM
Where: Goddess Gatherings in Lafayette, CA
Ticket: $88
Number of awesome humans: 15
To save your spot click here.
JULY 22
What: Mind/Body/Money Circle for Women By Women
When: July 22 | 10AM-1PM
Description: I will be teaming up WITH powerhouses Gwen, founder of Beyond The Box Nutrition, and Sara a financial advisor for Morgan Stanley in Walnut Creek. Gwen is a former client and bestie of mine, and Sara is a new bestie of mine. One day, we got to talking about how NOBODY is talking about the mind/body/money connection, and how there actually IS a connection. We will be exploring this connection together. Please come join us if you're curious!
Where: 1001 Harvey Drive, Walnut Creek, CA.
Tickets: $111
Number of awesome women: 20-40
To save your spot click here.
AUGUST 26
What: Body LOVE focused Family Constellations (Deep, deep dive)
When: August 26 | 9AM-5PM
Description: Speaking WITH badass women around me like my clients, and friends of mine, we often talk about the challenges of being comfortable in our bodies, radically loving on our bodies in a world that has socially conditioned us to hate on our bodies and/or ignore our bodies, or apologize for them. No more! Come explore ways in which to LOVE on your body through constellation work and Gwen's 4M method (Movement, Meals, Mindfulness, and Meaning). You can find out more about Gwen and her work here.
Where: Gwen's private residence in Danville, CA
Tickets: $777 (nutritious and delicious lunch + snacks provided by flexible eating coach Gwen!)
Number of awesome women: 4
To save your spot click here.
What: The Coach's Retreat
When: June 16 1PM - June 18 1PM
Description: Our signature quarterly retreat for women entrepreneurs who feel stuck in their business (and you know business is never about business, it's like 20 layers deep). We use Family Constellations to constellate the shit out of your biz. You'll walk away WITH a sacred business plan, access to our 9-week online course called "On Growing", and a 3-month virtual weekly zoom container to rock out your next big thing in your biz based on your sacred business plan.
Ticket: $5K (on-site) and $3K (off-site)
Location: Gilbert, Arizona
Number of awesome humans: 5 (on-site); 3 remaining and 4 (off-site); 4 remaining
For more deets and to apply click here.
JUNE 24
What: Self-Love focused Family Constellations
When: June 24th | 9AM-5PM
Description: For constellators seeking to do a deep dive into challenges around self-esteem, self-love, self-confidence, self-trust, self-respect, and any other self- _____ <-- fill in the blank words! Our hope is every one will get the opportunity to be a seeker here with a one-hour lunch break provided by Casey! You can find out more about Casey and her work here.
Where: Shot by Casey Photo Studio in Concord, CA
Ticket: $333 (lunch provided)
Number of awesome humans: 8
To save your spot click here.
JULY 15
What: Family Constellations
When: July 15 | 10AM-1PM
Where: Goddess Gatherings in Lafayette, CA
Ticket: $88
Number of awesome humans: 15
To save your spot click here.
JULY 22
What: Mind/Body/Money Circle for Women By Women
When: July 22 | 10AM-1PM
Description: I will be teaming up WITH powerhouses Gwen, founder of Beyond The Box Nutrition, and Sara a financial advisor for Morgan Stanley in Walnut Creek. Gwen is a former client and bestie of mine, and Sara is a new bestie of mine. One day, we got to talking about how NOBODY is talking about the mind/body/money connection, and how there actually IS a connection. We will be exploring this connection together. Please come join us if you're curious!
Where: 1001 Harvey Drive, Walnut Creek, CA.
Tickets: $111
Number of awesome women: 20-40
To save your spot click here.
AUGUST 26
What: Body LOVE focused Family Constellations (Deep, deep dive)
When: August 26 | 9AM-5PM
Description: Speaking WITH badass women around me like my clients, and friends of mine, we often talk about the challenges of being comfortable in our bodies, radically loving on our bodies in a world that has socially conditioned us to hate on our bodies and/or ignore our bodies, or apologize for them. No more! Come explore ways in which to LOVE on your body through constellation work and Gwen's 4M method (Movement, Meals, Mindfulness, and Meaning). You can find out more about Gwen and her work here.
Where: Gwen's private residence in Danville, CA
Tickets: $777 (nutritious and delicious lunch + snacks provided by flexible eating coach Gwen!)
Number of awesome women: 4
To save your spot click here.
