All of our Relationships are Mirrors
Here's the magical miracle-y thing that will happen when you come on a VIP couple's retreat: You think you're coming into work on your relationship WITH your partner, but really? You're working on THE most important relationship on the planet: Your relationship WITH you. Every single relationship that we have WITH someone is a reflection of what it is that we need to work on, where it is that we need to grow, it is an invitation to get curious WITH a whole lot of compassion, funsies, and magical miracles.
You + Your Partner will Embody The 5 Pillars
The foundation of this retreat:
The 5 pillars of having a magical miracle-y relationship WITH your partner.
(1) Love
-This is based on accepting your parents exactly as they are (this shit ain’t easy) because the relationship you have WITH your partner is based on the relationship you have WITH your parents, especially your mom
(2) Giving + Receiving
-The giving and receiving nature of your relationship WITH your partner needs to be in balance
-When we are in too much giving energy, it’s most likely we are looking for love and acceptance by giving because we don’t love and accept ourselves yet
-When we are in too much receiving energy, it’s almost like child-like energy, because we didn’t receive what we needed as a child
(3) Hunting + Gathering
-We’ve had this history imprinted in our brains for 100,000s of years: men hunted, and women stayed behind and gathered and took care of the children
-In our modern day, 40% of households have women as the breadwinner in the U.S.
-It’s not to say that you can’t be the breadwinner as a woman, but you have to also acknowledge and respect your partner’s work as a house hubby just as much as he needs to acknowledge and respect your work outside the home (read: cave—lol)
(4) The Sexual Relationship
-Sex is a sacred force because it’s actual purpose is to bring life into this world
-Sometimes (not intentionally) we bring in past relationships into our present one and it can have unintended consequences
-Best to clear the energy from past relationships and acknowledge that those past relationships served you at the time and were what you needed then and not anymore
(5) Intimacy + Living Together
-When intimacy and living together can get icky, it could be that you are carrying stuff from your partner’s family system and/or your partner carrying stuff from your family system
-Best to make sure you are not carrying for each other and/or taking on roles that are not yours to carry either so you can be in the role of each other’s partners
The 5 pillars of having a magical miracle-y relationship WITH your partner.
(1) Love
-This is based on accepting your parents exactly as they are (this shit ain’t easy) because the relationship you have WITH your partner is based on the relationship you have WITH your parents, especially your mom
(2) Giving + Receiving
-The giving and receiving nature of your relationship WITH your partner needs to be in balance
-When we are in too much giving energy, it’s most likely we are looking for love and acceptance by giving because we don’t love and accept ourselves yet
-When we are in too much receiving energy, it’s almost like child-like energy, because we didn’t receive what we needed as a child
(3) Hunting + Gathering
-We’ve had this history imprinted in our brains for 100,000s of years: men hunted, and women stayed behind and gathered and took care of the children
-In our modern day, 40% of households have women as the breadwinner in the U.S.
-It’s not to say that you can’t be the breadwinner as a woman, but you have to also acknowledge and respect your partner’s work as a house hubby just as much as he needs to acknowledge and respect your work outside the home (read: cave—lol)
(4) The Sexual Relationship
-Sex is a sacred force because it’s actual purpose is to bring life into this world
-Sometimes (not intentionally) we bring in past relationships into our present one and it can have unintended consequences
-Best to clear the energy from past relationships and acknowledge that those past relationships served you at the time and were what you needed then and not anymore
(5) Intimacy + Living Together
-When intimacy and living together can get icky, it could be that you are carrying stuff from your partner’s family system and/or your partner carrying stuff from your family system
-Best to make sure you are not carrying for each other and/or taking on roles that are not yours to carry either so you can be in the role of each other’s partners
Tentative Schedule
FRIDAY
1:00PM: Arrive at Couple's Retreat (light hors d'oeuvres served)
1:30-2:30PM: Get settled
2:30-3:00PM: Welcome Ceremony
3:00-3:15pm: Breaktime
3:15-4:00PM: Afternoon Meditation + Journaling
4:00-4:15PM: Breaktime
4:15-5:00PM: Soul of your relationship Playdate 1
5:00-5:30PM: Breaktime
5:30PM: Welcome dinner
SATURDAY
9:30AM: Morning Movement
10:00-11:00AM: Morning meditation and Journaling
11:00AM-1:00PM: Brunch
1:00PM: Soul of your relationship playdate 2
2:30PM: Coffee/tea break
3:00PM: Soul of your relationship playdate 3
4:30PM: Cooking Class
5:30PM: Dinner
SUNDAY
9:00AM: Morning Movement
9:30AM-10:00AM: Satsang (Gathering for the Truth)
10:00-11:00AM: Soul of your relationship playdate 4
11:00AM-12:30PM: Brunch
12:30PM-1:00PM: Closing Ceremony
1:00PM: Arrive at Couple's Retreat (light hors d'oeuvres served)
1:30-2:30PM: Get settled
2:30-3:00PM: Welcome Ceremony
3:00-3:15pm: Breaktime
3:15-4:00PM: Afternoon Meditation + Journaling
4:00-4:15PM: Breaktime
4:15-5:00PM: Soul of your relationship Playdate 1
5:00-5:30PM: Breaktime
5:30PM: Welcome dinner
SATURDAY
9:30AM: Morning Movement
10:00-11:00AM: Morning meditation and Journaling
11:00AM-1:00PM: Brunch
1:00PM: Soul of your relationship playdate 2
2:30PM: Coffee/tea break
3:00PM: Soul of your relationship playdate 3
4:30PM: Cooking Class
5:30PM: Dinner
SUNDAY
9:00AM: Morning Movement
9:30AM-10:00AM: Satsang (Gathering for the Truth)
10:00-11:00AM: Soul of your relationship playdate 4
11:00AM-12:30PM: Brunch
12:30PM-1:00PM: Closing Ceremony
This is for and your partner if:
- You still deeply love your partner
- You want to take your relationship to the next level, but not sure how
- You would like to continue to grow WITH your partner
- You feel like you need a little bit of extra help from an objective party
- You love getaways and safe containers that nourish your soul on a deep level
- You are excited to do some work on yourself
- You are open to different but profound ways of transformation or as our clients say, "next level shit"
This is NOT for and your partner if:
- You want to divorce your partner and looking for this retreat to help you do that
- You do not want to work on your relationship at all
- You can't stand personal growth work
- You would like a cheat sheet or an easy way out
- You like to stay in your comfort zone all the time
- You hate your partner
- You are close-minded to different but profound ways of transformation or as our clients say, "next level shit"
What you and your partner will get:
- Couples Retreat Swag Bag
- Couples Retreat Workbook
- Surprise Gifts
- Couples Retreat Mini Cookbook
- All accommodation, meals, snacks, coffee/tea
- Soul Nourishment
- Next Level Shit Coaching for you and your partner
- And MORE!
The deets:
(1) Choose a weekend you and your partner are free.
(2) Book a call WITH Kyla here.
(3) After the call, if it still feels like a great growth fit, book your tickets, and arrange your travel.
(4) See you on retreat!
(5) Do a happy dance =).
(2) Book a call WITH Kyla here.
(3) After the call, if it still feels like a great growth fit, book your tickets, and arrange your travel.
(4) See you on retreat!
(5) Do a happy dance =).
